Candy's Cell - MyHope Party

For the last few years, I have been through several Mass Harvest events. To conduct MyHope Evangelism which is a cell based harvest event, it felt strange but yet brings a thrill of excitement to me.

In preparation for MyHope party, my cell shared and reviewed each others' testimonies. We also went through training for the sharing of John 3:16. The most helpful training session of all, I would say was the one conducted by Pastor Evelyn which taught us how to broach the salvation question and how to handle excuses.

Due to some adjustments in calendar, my cell's party was finally scheduled to 12Dec Friday. There was only 10 days from the day we confirmed the date, to the actual event. I delegated some tasks to my helpful members and was grateful for their support.

Many of my gers could not get any of their friends for the party because of the short runway and their friends' travelling plans. Only on the night before the event, did we have 3-4 guests whose attendance was confirmed.

On the actual day, Sarah, Juliana and Paulina came in early to help out in the carolling, going through the icebreaker games etc. Around 630pm, we were still confirming attendance! The 4 of us prayed for God to use us as vessels and we invited Him be the VIP for our party.

We expected 20 persons (members and guests) and the food seemed insufficient. However, our Lord the Provider multiplied our "5 tau-hueys and 2 almond jellys" (an inside joke) to a living room carpetted with food (thanks to Sarah for coordinating!). Guests were satisfied and we had plenty of leftover food! The guests participated actively in the icebreakers (cheers to Paulina!). After a pretty awkward time of carolling, we shared our reason for celebrating Christmas and showed the DVD.


Out of our 7 guests, 1 gave his life to Jesus and 1 rededicated her life to follow Him. Out of the remaining guests, few have indicated a desire to know more about God and join us for future events. This was a surprise to us to receive such open-ness, from friends who has rejected us in previous harvest events. A seed has been planted, and we have more opportunities to water and nuture it.

Introducing my team who made it possible!

Juliana: MyHope taught us to be good hosts and allowed our friends gain some ideas about "church stuff" in a comfortable setting.

Sarah: I learnt that one pair of hands wouldn’t be able to accomplish much, but together, we managed to plan the party, enjoy ourselves and even the guests had fun and laughing to the various antics we displayed. And indeed the Lord provides, in food, in guest numbers and also in the smooth flow of the party. It was a blasting success.

Paulina: I saw the simpliest form of evangelism as we all gather and serve our guests with food and drinks. of course, how everything is possible when we invite God as our guest of Honour.


Upon reflection, I knew that this entire event could not have been possible if not for the Lord's intervention. Initially, we could not fix a suitable date for the party and the response from the ground was poor. We were not confident of carrying it through because my girls had not prior experience and I had not lead a cell-based harvest before. It was a major step of faith for us to plan it with such a short runway.

However, when the Lord shifted our calendar, when the guests started streaming in, I knew in my spirit that the Lord's hand was upon us. The event was so well received that the guests lingered on to chat, even when we were already cleaning up (sign that they have to go, haha!). This is nothing short of amazing. And just like how Kelvin Soh would say it, All Glory Goes to God!


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Journeying with God Part 5

Uncrossed Bridges

Many of us have unfinished business in our lives. Doors not close, memories unsettled, promises not fulfilled. Both by people in our lives, or to people and some to the Lord.

The Key - A focused life. The famous writer led a life of questioning God in his endless hours of study of the Word of God, until His truth refuted him beyond measure and he was convinced totally to believe in his mind of Jesus. From there on, he led a Focused life only to further the Kingdom of God. You and I have read his books and even watched his moveies that talks about out redeeming Jesus. His name is C.S Lewis.

PsD

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The Vision is Simple!

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Journeying with God part 4

An Untutored Spirit- Read James 1:6-8

"But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; 8he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does."

When you read the above passage you will understand if you are unschooled in the ways of God, your life will be a journey of unsustainable growth, double-mindedness with a lack of devotion to Christ.

The Key - ASK the Lord to show you HIS burden. Not your burden. Be carried along by His thoughts, His Desires, His Will, His concerns that as you seek Him earnestly, He will surely show you.

He will help build your sensitivity to Him in prayer and obedience!

PsD

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Lionel's tots of MY HOPE

This year's Christmas season feels different... and i am thankful. It was kind of nice to hear over the radio a description of Jesus Christ's birth on Christmas Day.

I am thankful for the 3 hands that were raised for the Christmas Party for my students. Had a good talk with one of them. Need to follow up on the other two.

I am thankful for the team i led up to Thailand. The rapport and relationships built has been amazing considering we had so little time up there. Thankful that they have been pretty real to me and how the Lord has shown me how He is using me to touch these lives. It is a privilege.

I am thankful for the birthday party for Nigel. Had a wonderful time catching up with the old Marists boys again. It is always a joy to see them. And i caught a glimsp of how dynamic things would be if they were all on fire for God. Shall keep praying for that to become true!! Am proud of Gif and XF who just tirelessly worked to make things work out. Proud of Nig who seemed determined to be a light to his gang of friends. :)

I am thankful that thru Christ i really have hope for the future no matter how bleak it looks. More and more i am convinced that my optimism is not just my character but a God-given joy of knowing that He is in control. Timing of things will always look perfect even as i trust in the Lord to provide..... Jer 29:11 - His plans are always to prosper me and to give me hope.

I am thankful for the rest. Am on leave till Christmas. Just need to clear the accounts for the sch trip, finish up on 2 assignments (LAST TWO!!!) and i can really enjoy this break. Got two referrals from Dr. Tan... exciting! Praying that things will go well since one of them asked for CBT... not exactly my strength.

I am thankful that the Lord seems to already be setting things up for me next year in the area of work. Have been roped into a cluster team requested by my cluster supervisor to oversea certain areas for the cluster. Hopefully it will be a good learning experience. As much as i am quite resistant to climbing up, if it is what the Lord has planned for me, i shall do my best.

I am thankful for this year of being lost. Had been feeling so far and lost for the most of this year. Quite opposite to the theme of Sabbath, but it as shown me how little i can acheive apart from Him. Even what seemed as natural and easy becomes so difficult. It has been pretty humbling and i am reminded, just like what Paul said, that i can boast only because of what the Lord had done thru me.

I am thankful.

Thank God!!

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Journeying with God part 3

Hidden Sins

"If I regard wickedness in my heart, the Lord will not hear." Ps 66:18 its not just about confession, its dealling thoroughly with sin. Someone once said, if you sin you can't truly pray. But if you pray, you will not sin.

Pray here is an action contiuous word. Meaning prayer is our constant battle to stand firm.

A Good Key- Really take time to read devotional books. Books that help you think about God. Books or biographies that inspire you to faith and change.

PsD

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Journeying with God part2

2. A Weak Foundation - Weakness exit not becos of unwillingness, but because of our lack of understanding of God & ignorance of God's wonderful secrets & solutions.

The Key - A THANKFUL HEART,
A WORSHIPING MIND
A PRAYERFUL SPIRIT

Start by reading a psalm a day- To know Him is to give Him room in your heart, your mind and your spirit.

Make it your prayer, make Him your life!

PsD

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My Hope Singapore

When I watched this video it sort of reminded me of who I was before Christ.
Lost, hopeless unsure of what I am looking for.
But as I walked with the Lord in the years that I have given my life to Him, I now know what is real happiness.
And as this season of MY HOPE Singapore, I pray that the people that I am inviting will also understand that without God, we cannot find the happy life that we so yearn for.

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Lionel's Love story..... last part.

Becoming the Hero, waiting for the Princess (Part 3)

By the grace of God Xiangru and I started to talk again on MSN, on extraordinary circumstances which led to us finding that we were still very much attracted to each other. One thing led to the next and we were officially attached on 8/4/2007.

This date was special to me for a few reasons:
1. It was Resurrection Sunday. I remember at Ps Roland’s house when he announced that we are official and I was made aware of this date, God said:’ I am resurrecting this part of your life because you gave up your life to me for the past 2 years.’ Tears swelled up in my eyes as I heard it and I could feel God’s love fill my heart.

2. It was Ignez’s birthday!! When Ps Eve was still pregnant with Ignez, I had wanted to ask if I could be the God-father. But when I heard that Xiangru was the God-mother, I thought that it would be better that I dun mention it to not complicate things. Now I will be Ignez’s god-father even without me asking!! God is GOOD!! :)

God showed me two things to show me that she was the one:
1. The thing that irritated me about her the most was her pride. She ALWAYS thinks that she is right. Talking to her feels as if you are being talked down to by a teacher. But what God showed me was that she had learnt of her own weaknesses and that she is not in total control. That she knows that God is the one who is control and she is just a guide to her girls.

2. This might sound a bit funny. Because of her strong character, I had always feared that she would have problems submitting to me as a wife. This feeling was made even stronger by the fact that she was YN144 while I was YN1728… like lower in rank! Haha! So when the news of Ps Danny being seeded up into Ps Eugene’s 12, my first thoughts was not about being in the 144. As a matter of fact, I was telling God: “You must be kidding!!” and I was preoccupied with what that meant with regard to us.

After we got together, Xiangru disclosed that what kept her interested and attracted was how I handled myself 2 years ago when faced with my mistakes. I faced them, admitted that I was wrong and was ready to face any consequences. She also saw how I grew in the 2 years and worked at my weaknesses. In seeing all of that she respected me for them. What kept me interested and attracted was how she allowed her pride to die and understood more of God’s grace.

Even now, we are seeing how God is molding us to be perfect for each other. If you know us, you will know that we are two very different people with conflicting personalities. But God is showing us how that difference is being used by Him to complement each of us. An example is how she is so detailed and meticulous in her work while I am so big picture and free spirited. Combined we become a dynamic duo! She has also become gentler, which can be testified by all her friends around her, in the near 19 months that we have been together. :)

Let me end my sharing with this: we have always been taught that in praying for the right partner, one of the things we can do is to list down 5 non-negotiable and 5 negotiable criteria that we want. The common thought or practice is that it will never happen and that we would ‘downgrade’ our requirements so that there is higher chance of use finding the right one. Especially as we grow older, we start to fear that we will never find the right one. I want to testify that at age 31, 3 Oct 2009, I will be marrying my rib, helper, soul mate and best friend who fits ALL of the 10 criteria that I listed down. Want to know what the 10 criteria are?? Maybe next time I will tell you. :)

Now she seem more and more beautiful with each passing day and I can tell from the way she looks at me (and by her telling me) of how she looks up to me for the things I do and believe in. You can say that finally, after 2 years, that I have become her Hero and she has become my Princess.

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Good Neighbour Day

On 13 November (Thursday) at 7.15pm, come gather at your school or office lobby to pray and bless our city, along with other members from different LoveSingapore churches.
This is also a list of places that DEtribe will be gathering and anchoring, so please do come and pray!

Venue: Singapore Polytechnic (Primers Room, click on this link to see where we will be gathered spprimers.blogspot.com/2007/01/locate-us.html)
Time: 1900hrs
Guide to getting to Singapore Polytechinc: www.sp.edu.sg/SPweb/appmanager/home/default?_nfpb=true&T2204579131142218658226_actionOverride=%2FcmsTools%2Fextension%2Fcontent%2Fmain%2FgoHome&_windowLabel=T2204579131142218658226&_pageLabel=SP_ABT_OC_TSP_Page
Contact Person: Kenny Foo

Venue: Anderson Junior College
Time: 1900hrs
Contact Person: Lionel Chan

Venue: SIM (Main Gate)
Time 1900hrs
Contact Person: Liang Ming

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Lionel's Sharing

Becoming the Hero, waiting for the Princess (Part 2)

I first heard of this name “Xiangru” from a friend Amos during Uni Year 4. And then somehow that name just stuck in my head for the longest time. I remember that after I graduated from Uni, in one of the chilling out times with Shixiong at ECP where we talked at the Coffeebean, we were talking about our ‘Top 10 list of potential girlfriends’. Xiangru was one of them but I just dismissed it coz at that time I could not foresee how I would get to know her and not to mention start anything.

I finally got to formally know Xiangru in 2003 during one of the retreats at Sentosa Scripture Union. I remember I introduced myself to her and then went on to tell her what I know about her. It was just a simple intro during an ice-breaker. We did not like talked much after that till the Family Camp at PL end of 2003. What caught my attention was when she referred to a joke I made during the camp as one of the moments she will remember about the camp. At that time there was still nothing special going on.

Then I screwed up. Thinking that it was ok to explore with a few girls at the same time, I decided to get to know 2 girls better at the same time in 2004. I asked Xiangru out for supper and she agreed! We had roti prata at Jalan Kayu. Later I got to know that firstly, she dun normally eat supper and secondly, that was the first time she was out with a guy on a one on one date! I would also go on single dates with the other girl and often sent her back and walked her up her place. To top it off, I would tell them about each other so as to ensure transparency. Haha! That was what I thought! Honest! During the whole time Ps Danny was telling me about how Xiangru would be a better choice and that the other girl was not ready and had issues. I refused to listen and even told him that I knew her better than he did. I ignored what my brothers told me.

Well, it all exploded in my face when on one hand I did not know how to ‘reject’ the other girl and on the other hand my actions have already put Xiangru off big time. All 3 parties were getting hurt. The pastors had to step in to close the matter. On separate occasions I had to apologies to the girls and end things. I admitted my mistakes and was ready to face whatever things that might come. The other girl even scolded me on her blog with some vicious words. Angry as I was I knew I deserved it.

It was only then that I realized that what Ps Danny was telling me about her was true. This made me surer that I wanted to start something with Xiangru but it was already too late. I really handled things very badly. This resulted in 2 years of having minimal contact with Xiangru. When Ps Laifun asked me once whether it would ever be possible for things between Xiangru and I, I told her that it would require a miracle. The other girl just faded away and even left church. Sometimes I wonder if it was me who caused her to leave. It was something that I had to settle with God.

In the 2 years of no contact, I gave my life anew to God and the cell was born. It started with Kevin, Gavin, Darren…. Then was Brandon, Xianbin, Ryan, Don, Nigel… then Eugene, Bjorn Ng, Bjorn Liu, Gifford, Xunfu… just to name the few familiar ones. God just brought these lives one by one to me without me lifting a finger. And for two years I poured my life into theirs and just concentrated on them. Personally I worked on my weaknesses. I gave up meeting my female friends on single dates coz I knew that was something that Xiangru did not like. I realized that I was someone that would say anything to save my skin and I was good at it, which made it even harder for me to change that part of me. I also had to work hard to clear the emotional baggage I had and re-learn how to be friends with females maintaining a proper and healthy boundary.

It was a humbling 2 years......

Last part coming up! :)

Lionel

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Sharing from BGR Talk by Lionel

Becoming the Hero, waiting for the Princess (Part 1)

Being in an all boys school since primary school, the only girls I knew then other than my cousins were 2 of my father’s friend’s daughters who are both much older than me. And strangely I have never been interested in girls even in secondary school. I remember that in the gang of 8 of us that hang out often my other friends would be talking about girls all the time, tea parties, who is chio and always seems to be changing girlfriends like changing clothes.

It was always this cycle: a new girl is introduced to the group, we go out a few times and then it would be drinking session to nurse a broken heart. A funny thing was that a friend of mine had girlfriends named April, May and June one after the other! Haha! We always made fun of him that if a girl could be named July then it would be his girlfriend!

It was then that I decided that I only want to have one girlfriend that would become my wife and I was determined that for that to happen, I must get ready to be in a relationship …. Get ready for what? I was also discovering that as I went along.

I had my first girlfriend when I was in Uni year 2. I thought I would be ready then. She was from the same cell and I guess the love blossomed when we would plan for worship together; she led worship while I played the guitar. Then I would walk her back from Hall 6 my room to Hall 7 where she stayed. Mind you thou it seems that it’s just the next block, Hall 7 is on the other side of campus. Then it was thru other opportunities of dinner and studying together for the exams that I plucked up enough courage to tell her that I like her and asked her to be my girlfriend. Even thou she wasn’t everything that I wanted in a girlfriend I thought that maybe she will change or I will grow to accept that part of her because I loved her. And that’s how my first relationship started.

We lasted for 2 and half years. A year into her working life we realized that what she wanted in a relationship had changed and I realized that I wasn’t as ready to be in a relationship as I thought I would be. It wasn’t a very clean break and things were pretty chaotic for 8 months before it was truly through, and then began the 3 years of picking up the pieces.

Some of the lesson I learnt from that relationship was:
1. Don’t change who you are to fit into the relationship. It will not last and you will feel stifled and even lose yourself. You start to do things that you know you have to do but grudgingly and that will poison the relationship. Find someone that you can be yourself with, good or bad. That would help you two love each other more.

2. Open communication helps to eliminate any misunderstandings that would cause bitterness with each other. Sometimes we think that maybe it would be better that the other party not know about certain things. But having to keep a secret just makes you appear shifty and breeds distrust. Even if being truthful will result in arguments, working thru it will help to grow the relationship deeper. Honesty is the best policy in a relationship.

3. I was not as ready as I thought. I was not sure about what kind of a man I needed to be so that I can be depended upon as a husband. Though I started on the right foot, of wanting just one girlfriend, I still made a mess of things coz I did not learn how to include someone else into my life. I remember very clearly what my supervisor then said: It takes one complete person and one complete person to make a complete relationship. It requires you to be first secure of your position in Christ, healed of past hurts and aware of your own weaknesses and strength, and ready to put someone else’s needs as more important than yourself, then you are QUITE ready to start. Why only quite? Coz if you go ahead without the blessing of God, no matter how humanly ready you are, things will still fail. 100% man, 100% God.

I spent almost a year sorting out my emotions and trying to set my heart right so as not to carry any baggage into my next relationship, which would doom it right away, before I started to socialize again.

Stay tuned for Part 2..........


Lionel

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Ahhhhhhh I love Star wars

When I saw this video I was jumping non stop....
hope you enjoy it as much as i Did....hahaha

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What is church all about?

Something for all of us to think about

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News from SP.Primers

Hello family,

this is for you who are wondering what we are doing as a ministry in Singapore Poly. This is our publication that was done up by the publicity team in Primers. Hope you Enjoy!

Kenny Foo

Pub08 Ohana Oct

Get your own at Scribd or explore others:

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Aftertots from the BGR Talk

The journey that God brought me through, preparing myself for THE relationship

Just in case some of you might just be thinking, “You mean you have only liked one in your life? Do you not even have crushes?” No. Li Ting had crushes before, one in primary, one in secondary school, one in JC, one in university, but they just never got developed into a BGR sort. Why? Simply, I trust that God had protected me (not that these boys are harmful, but there were just not at the right time). For some, when I was tempted to begin a relationship with someone, the two questions I would ask myself were:

1. Is he Christian? A man after God’s heart?
2. Can I live with him? (Is he a husband material?)

If for any one of these questions, the answer is a ‘no’. I would move on. By God’s grace and strength, I moved on, trusting that my Heavenly Father would know me best.
One precious revelation that God showed me was the 1X1=1 rule of relationship. The impression I had from the media for a long while was that the rule of relationship was that of ½ + ½ = 1 until God changed that old mindset. It is said in Genesis 9:7 (NIV), “As for you, be fruitful and increase in number; MULTIPLY (capitalized for effect here) on the earth and increase upon it.” Mathematically God said multiply and not add to the number. Spiritually, in Genesis 2:24 (NIV), it is mentioned, “For this reason, a man (one man) will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife (one wife), and they will become one flesh.” 1 man X 1 wife = 1 flesh. I realized the importance to be whole and complete as a person in a relationship. I do not want to be found saying to my other partner, “you complete my life.” Before, I commit myself to a relationship; I want to first be happy and satisfied being a single. And I knew I can only be whole and complete in God. Only He only can satisfy the desires of my heart, no one else can. This is the verse I held on to while happy waiting: Song of songs 2:7 (NIV), “Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.”

I believed that the one relationship I would have would lead to marriage, the one boyfriend I had would be my husband. And God was true to the promise He placed in my heart. There is no need to have many relationships so that we’ll be more experience in relationship issues and that each relationship after that would just get better. Not true! Every relationship broken is one piece of your heart being taken away. Yes, God will heal. I believe with all my heart that God can heal and make us whole again but please there is no need to have yourselves gone through such heartaches and make God work harder. If a relationship is broken and not have a proper closure, you might just be carrying more baggage into a new relationship, can then could it be better than the previous?

The elders of the church would advise, “Before you look for the right one, be the right one.” Such wisdom found in this statement! How to be the right one? Well, it will have to be more than just the looks. And I thank God for that. For I do not have the physical look that would grant me entry into beauty pageants, that does that mean I would have to be left on the shelf for a long time? Of course not! 1 Peter 3:3-4 mentions, “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” Girls, if you are to be found of such worth in God’s sight, trust me, your Heavenly Matchmaker would tell the worthy son of His to come for you. Don’t just bank on physical looks to attract the opposite sex. Come on, we’ll all age, we can’t be 18 all our life. Have a diversified ‘investment’ portfolio to up your ‘market’ value. Invest your time, energy to grow yourself in other areas too like spiritual, ministry, emotional, intellectual, cultural, family and financial. These were the areas shared by Pastor Cesar’s daughter some years back when she spoke at the G12 conference; I shall claim no credits here. She shared too that you can use the same 8 areas to write down what are the three most important traits (to each area) you would like your future spouse to have. This exercise can help you to know what is important to you. And finally if the one would really to appear, you would know why or what you really like about each other rather than saying, “Oh, he’s a nice guy.” “Oh, she’s a nice guy.” Well not all nice people are the right one.

The one that God brought into my life is currently my beloved husband, David. We already had some friendship to begin with. We were in the same ministry for some time and before G12 come into place for Youthnet, he was my cell leader a few months. David took about nine months to know me more before he asked me to be his girlfriend. I would refer to those days as my courtship days, and David had made those days interesting and purposeful. He would testify that I am of a different kind as compared to his previous girlfriends. He told me that he spoke to his leader before about how different I am and was uncertain if the relationship would really worked out. His leader only prompted him to realize that maybe the old idea of what kind of girl he wanted to be with didn’t work and to give this relationship a try. And the verse that God gave him was from Proverbs 31:30, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” I was humbled by the way God brought us together. After he popped the question, I took two months to give him an answer. I knew I liked him when he courted me and the day he popped the question, I could still remember how overjoyed I was to hear it from his mouth for I have waited for months. Till today, I would still tell him how much I appreciate him for chasing me, that he made the moves, that he popped the question. The truth that always anchored in my heart is that he cherishes me. During the two months I made him waited, I made an unusual request. I asked that he would give me two character references that I could meet to hear from them about him. It was an interesting experience to hear from his cell leader and his good friend about him for they have known him well for years and that would give me a good idea if he is consistent to the impression he gave me. On hindsight, I was surprised myself I made such a request. He gave me the freedom to meet up with them in his absence. With such confidence I guess, he would have won half of the ‘battle’, even before I meet up with them on separate occasions.

I still remember I blessed I was in the relationship because there were so much community support and blessings. I knew all these were possible because all the while when he was chasing me, he kept the leaders and the pastors in the know, I was kind of the last to know. But then, why should it matter. 

Li Ting

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Praywalking!

There was a special teaching by the ROLLED Clusters' pastors on prayer walking which happened happened yesterday at TC 3rd floor. Well they covered many MANY points of what was the purpose of prayer walk, what is the objective of prayer walking, how we can do prayer walking and what are some of the fruits of prayer walking.

So as I sat there listening (mind you I was huffing and puffing, rushing from EXPO to Singapore Poly and then back to Marine parade all within 2 hrs), there was a certain familiar message that came out for me. In my own words, "do you see the world and people as I(Jesus) do?"

This seems to be the message for me at this current junction of my life. On Sunday that was the message that struck me the hardest from Ps Pat Chew's talk and now on this wednesday, same thing! And guess what I am reading Church Shift by Ps Sunday Adelaja..and its the same thing!

Pretty scary, but I guess thats one of the objective of prayer walking? As we pray onsite (the place where we want to see our prayers answered), we will begin to see and know the land/people as we observe who they are and sensitive ourselves to their needs!

I for one am a person that can be very oblivious to the needs of others, in my pursuit for a bigger ministry, a better program or just simple having FUN. So let me give you an example of what I mean.

Watch this video



Its an awareness test, and for me its a reflection of the needs out there in my community and I pray to God and ask him to show me the needs and that I will meet the peoples' need!

Time for me to do some serious prayer walking now so what about you?

Kenny Foo

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The Leader’s Pathway – A Vital Walk with God

A leader’s greatest gift: A fully yielded heart

Sometimes we find it difficult to maintain a close, consistent, vital walk with Jesus Christ. We feel ashamed of ourselves when we hear of others practicing solitude, fasting, prayer, journaling, and other spiritual disciplines… things we have not been doing for a while. We feel inadequate and wonder why we can’t establish and sustain vital walk with Christ.

Maybe all this is because we’ve never discovered our spiritual pathway – our unique means of moving toward vital union with Christ. We’re all different, special, unique. We grow in our walk with God in different ways. Just as different people have different personalities and gifts, so they have different spiritual pathways.
Here are some examples:

1. The Relational Pathway

Have you ever noticed how difficult it is for some people to flourish in their walk with Christ when they do it alone?
For these people, it feels like solitary confinement. It feels suffocating. It’s frustrating. Doing Bible study alone produces little growth. Sitting alone at a worship service is intimidating, and serving alone is a fate worse than death. People who connect best with God on the relational pathway feel a sense of spiritual dullness when they try to walk with God alone.

But bring relationships into their life, and see what happens! They begin to thrive spiritually. When they pray with others, they feel the presence of God physically. When they study the Bible with other followers, they learn so much and come away on fire for God. When they work together with others in church, they find great joy. When they praise God with other believers, worship is extremely meaningful.

For these people, the relational pathway is their primary pathway to God. Most people fit into this profile, because we’re all made to be part of a community, to build each other up and support one another through all situations.

2. The Intellectual Pathway

For people who fall under this category, they find that their minds must be fully engaged before they can make significant spiritual progress. They can’t have their devotions without commentaries and study guides. They are drawn to bible classes, seminars and events that will challenge their thinking.

Why? Because they realize that their hearts will never fully engage until their minds are filled with the truth!

For them, once their minds are fully convinced, their hearts follow, and their convictions become rock solid. And when they don’t keep their minds challenged, they will probably dry up spiritually. They feel the need to read theology, philosophy, history…all kinds of books to keep their soul satisfied.

If you have an intellectual orientation, start developing a spiritual formation plan that focuses on the development of your mind. Love God with all your mind and watch what happens in your walk with Him.

3. The Serving Pathway

Some of us can’t seem to grow in our walk with God or feel consistently close to Him unless we’re quietly and constantly doing His kingdom work. These people are the doers.

Of course, they read their Bibles, pray and attend church services like the rest of us. But ask them when they feel most alive in Christ, and they’ll say, ‘when I’m serving, when I’m volunteering in ministry, when I’m helping to accomplish the work of God.’

If you’re someone who feels closest to God when you’re doing something for Him, then work toward the serving pathway. Put together a spiritual formation plan that focuses on serving, and your awareness of God’s presence will increase.

4. The Contemplative Pathway

Some people don’t like to be busy. They are easily drained by relationships and activities, but they can spend almost unlimited time in solitude, basking in God’s presence. Offer them a Bible, a literary work, a poem and a journal, and they can disappear for days.

For them, simply being alone with God is enough. They love spending hours reflecting on the goodness of God, praying and worshipping privately. They are spiritually sensitive, and can discern the activity of God wherever they are.

These people take things seriously. They see beauty in nature, and often serve as the conscience of the faith community, calling the rest of us to ministries of compassion and inclusiveness. Often idealistic, they reflect on the many people suffering in the world, and wonder why so few care. They help us focus on what kingdom life is supposed to be like.

Contemplatives tend to have rich inner worlds; they’re the ones who compose the songs of write the books that stir our hearts and provoke our thoughts about God.

5. The Activist Pathway

Activists are the opposite of contemplatives. They are at their best when they’re speeding ahead, reveling in a highly challenging environment that pushes them to the absolute edge of their potential. It’s at the edge that they feel closest to God.

Many activists have received a calling from God, burst out of their comfort zones, and ran full speed from the day God spoke to them until the day they died. Along the way, they ignited all sorts of kingdom activity.

These people normally feel closest to God when they have given Him every last drop of their emotional, physical, mental and spiritual potential for a worthy kingdom cause.

If you’re an activist, accept it. Lean into your pathway. Accept that this is the way God has made you, and devote your energy to His work.

6. The Creation Pathway

These people grow best and relate to God most closely when they’re surrounded by nature. It’s just something about mountains, deserts, woods, oceans or beaches that show them a glimpse of God’s beautiful creation, and His mighty hand at work in the world.

Being in a natural environment increases their awareness of God, and they often draw direct spiritual meaning from nature. This isn’t surprising, considering that God created human beings and put them in a garden. These people are heading back to their roots.

7. The Worship Pathway

These people feel closest to God when they’re worshipping Him. Whole-heartedly and completely. It doesn’t matter if they’re worshipping in a church service, or in a small group, or singing along to CDs in their car… they feel most fully alive when they worship God.

Now that you have some ideas about spiritual pathways…

Firstly, identify your pathway. (It is possible to have more than one pathway, and this list isn’t exhaustive. Also, resist the temptation to compare your pathway with others’. Everyone is made different, and there is uniqueness in that difference.)

Secondly, lean into your pathway. Experiment with it. Try it on and see how your walk grows.

Third, appreciate all pathways. Experiment once in a while with various pathways, even though certain ones may be a stretch for you. Because they ALL offer an opportunity for growth.

Finally, help others identify their pathways.

DEtribe Blog Team

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A good shepard

Carl Roger, the guru of person-centered therapy, says that an effective therapeutic relationship has these 3 essential elements:

1. Empathy - the client must be able to sense that warmth and understanding that comes from the counsellor.
2. Congruency - the counsellor must at least appear to be real about wanting to help. What he says must match with what he does. Clients can tell a fake straightaway!
3. Unconditional Positive Regard - the client must feel that he is accepted for who he is and not judged for the issues that he will be telling the counsellor.

Consider this: Isn't this the same in the relationship between a sheperd and his sheep?

1. Godly Compassion - Your sheep must sense that warmth from you which will draw them (and others) towards you.
In Col 3:12, God tells us that even as we are born again in to the new self, we need to 'put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience'..... and in verse 14 'beyond all these things put on love.' Hear this truth: your sheep DO NOT NEED to listen to you as much as you NEED to listen to your shepard... we all CHOOSE to listen because God first loved us and therefore we obeyed His instructions. It is a matter of choice. You need to win your sheep over with love and compassion before they will follow you. Why does your sheep follow you? Out of obedience or out of seeing God's compassion in you?

2. Outstanding Integrity - Your sheep can tell if you are just 'playing leader'. You need to be real about what you teach them about God!
Many of us live double lives. On sundays we appear to be Godly man after God's heart and on the other days we become what the world wants us to be. Worse, we become what we think the world forces us to be in order to survive. Do not be deceived. Romans 12:2 says: "And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect." We can't serve 2 masters. Be real! God has said that whoever confesses his sins He who is righteous and just will forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteous (1 John 1:9).

Another phenomenon is this: that a leader treats this as a part-time job and does not put his whole heart into this. John 10:11-16 compares between a shepard and a hireling. A shepard 'lays down his life' while a hireling flees at the first sign of trouble. There is no way your can be an effective leader to mentor your people if you do not 'lay down your life' for them. You need to be real in this so that they can see that you are serious with them. Otherwise how would they learn to hear your voice and know you?

3. Declining Judgement - Why would your sheep tell you their secrets if they know you will judge them and throw the bible at them?
Luke 6:37 writes: "Do not judge, and you will not be judged; and do not condemn, and you will not be condemned; pardon, and you will be pardoned." No one likes to be judged... and especially not from someone you know who is not perfect. We would feel unjustified and even angry at someone who judges us based on their own 'biased' assessments. Ever felt that before? We start to think things like 'He thinks he is so great? He also like that what!' or 'He should sort out his life before he pokes his nose into my affairs!' or 'Whoever made him God!! " This is the same when we judge others and jump to conclusions about others: We have passed judgement.

Do not be mistaken, there is a difference in MAKING judgements and PASSING judgements. It is nearly impossible not to make judgements but it is entirely possible to refuse passing judgement onto others. It also helps you in your relating with that person.This opens the way for people to feel safe about sharing their lives with you, which always starts from the good things to the not so good things to the downright bad things. They need to feel that Godly acceptance. How deep is ur relationship with your sheep and your spiritual family? This might be a good gauge as to how they see you.

I purposely chose the words so that the first letters form the word GOD. This is a reminder: that we are all made in the image of God who is THE perfect shepard.

Lionel Chan

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Notes on Salvation part 1

Dear all,

this is a concised notes on what is salvation all about. The whole document is split into 4 parts, we will be posting one part per week so do come back for more!
It is done up by Shixiong and he has kindly agreed to share it with us on this tribe blog. So do give him a pat on his shoulders when you see him on sunday!

DEtribe Blog Team

SALVATION (THE CROSS)

The Cross is the center of the Christian faith. (Main Passage: Titus 3:4-6)

Salvation for Old Testament people à On the basis of what Christ will do in future

Salvation for New Testament people à On the basis on what Christ has already accomplished

Both eras are saved according to the cross. God is timeless, that’s why He can extend His hands of grace towards the Old Testament people even though He can’t stand sin.

Rev 22:13 I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.


THE ORIGINAL STATE OF MAN

Original State of Man from the Book of Genesis:

a. The mind, emotions, will are filled by the characteristics of God (We are made in His likeliness)

b. We are spiritual beings with the filling of God’s own breathe

c. We are given authority and are God’s representatives on earth

The very essence of God is holy and just. And we are made in His image and likeness.


DEFINITION OF SIN

Sin is a failure to meet God’s laws and holy standards. Sin is lawlessness.

1 John 3:4 Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness.

Sin includes both wrong acts as well as wrong attitudes. (E.g. In the Ten Commandments: “Thou shall not covet”)

James 4:17 Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it, sins.

Sin does not come from God. Sin is a direct contradiction to God’s nature and His excellence in moral standards.

Deut 32:4 He is the Rock, his works are perfect, and all his ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong, upright and just is he

It is even impossible for God to desire to do evil.

James 1:13 When tempted, no one should say, "God is tempting me." For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone;

With the fall, we went out of control, fallen short of God’s plan and there’s corruption in the world.

Jer 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?

Prov 20:9 Who can say, "I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin"?

We became sinners by nature.

Eph 2:3 All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature objects of wrath.

This means even infants, even before birth, have a sinful nature.

Ps 51:5 Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me.


PROBLEM WITH SIN

1. The universality of Sin

There are no exceptions. There is none righteous and everyone has that same propensity to sin.

Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,

Romans 3:10-18

10 As it is written: "There is no one righteous, not even one;

11 there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God.

12 All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one."

13 "Their throats are open graves; their tongues practice deceit "The poison of vipers is on their lips."

14 "Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness."

15 "Their feet are swift to shed blood;

16 ruin and misery mark their ways,

17 and the way of peace they do not know."

18 "There is no fear of God before their eyes."

2. The seriousness of Sin

Rom 5:23 For the wages of sin is death…

Rom 5:12 Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, and in this way death came to all men, because all sinned…

We will all be judged.

Romans 2:6 God "will give to each person according to what he has done."

Col 3:25 Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for his wrong, and there is no favoritism.

3. The inability of mankind to deal with Sin

a. By good works and charity? All rich men will go heaven?!?

b. Cover evil with good? I pay you $20 after I slap you?!?

c. Make an offering? I pay you $100 after I break your $100 handphone?!?

Romans 3:20 Therefore no one will be declared righteous in his sight by observing the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of sin.

Galatians 2:16 know that a man is not justified by observing the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by observing the law, because by observing the law no one will be justified.

RESULT OF SIN

1. We become spiritually dead and in bondage to Sin

Eph 2:1-3 "1 And you were dead in your trespasses and sins, 2 in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience. 3 Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest."

2. We become alienated from God – Sin in us is so repulsive to God, that even as God loves us, He cannot stand us

Colossians 1:21 Once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds because of your evil behavior.

3. We become subjected to God’s wrath because of His righteous anger – God’s wrath needs to be satisfied

Romans 1:18 The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness…

Eph 5:6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient.

In the same capacity that God uses to create, He can use it to destroy.

“Do not measure God’s anger with our own understanding of anger.”

4. We become guilty under the law – None of us are righteous enough for God

Isa 64:6 For all of us have become like one who is unclean, And all our righteous deeds are like a filthy garment; And all of us wither like a leaf, And our iniquities, like the wind, take us away.

Ps 53:1-3 "1 The fool says in his heart, "There is no God." They are corrupt, and their ways are vile; there is no one who does good. 2 God looks down from heaven on the sons of men to see if there are any who understand, any who seek God. 3 Everyone has turned away, they have together become corrupt; there is no one who does good, not even one."

Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,

5. We become slaves to Sin – Sin reign over us

Rom 7:21-24 "21 So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me. 22 For in my inner being I delight in God's law; 23 but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. 24 What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death?"


ATONEMENT IS NEEDED

Atonement means “someone taking the place of punishment for another person”.

This is because:

a. Man’s inability to deal with sin

b. The righteous demand on sin that has to be carried out

Romans 5: 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

With Christ’s death, the price of sin is paid. Hence, God took the wrath upon Himself.

Isaiah 53:10

Yet it was the LORD's will to crush him and cause him to suffer,

and though the LORD makes his life a guilt offering,

he will see his offspring and prolong his days,

and the will of the LORD will prosper in his hand.



ACCOMPLISHMENTS OF THE CROSS

1. Substitution for Sin

Sin in front of a Holy God demands payment. Christ died on our behalf.

Rom 5:23 For the wages of sin is death…

Matt 20:28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."

2 Corin 5:21 He made Him who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf, so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.


2. Redemption from Sin

– We are no longer spiritually dead and in bondage (to Sin)

Rom 6:11-13 "11 Even so consider yourselves to be dead to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus. 12 Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its lusts, 13and do not go on presenting the members of your body to sin as instruments of unrighteousness; but (present yourselves to God as those alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God.

Gal 4:5 so that He might redeem those who were under the Law, that we might receive the adoption as sons.

– We are no longer slaves to Sin

Rom 6:14 For sin shall not be master over you, for you are not under law but under grace."

– We are redeemed from the curse of law

Gal 3:13-14 "13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the Law, having become a curse for us--for it is written, "CURSED IS EVERYONE WHO HANGS ON A TREE"-- 14 in order that in Christ Jesus the blessing of Abraham might come to the Gentiles, so that we would receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.

– We are bought at a price (like slaves from a market place)

1 Corin 6:20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.

2 Peter 2:1 But false prophets also arose among the people, just as there will also be false teachers among you, who will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them, bringing swift destruction upon themselves.

– We are totally set free

Romans 8:1-2 "1 Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. 2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death.

John 8:31-32 "31 To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, "If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. 32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."

– We are forgiven

Colossians 2:13-14 "13 When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your sinful nature, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, 14 having canceled the written code, with its regulations, that was against us and that stood opposed to us; he took it away, nailing it to the cross.

– We are provided for

Rom 8:32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?


3. Propitiation for Sin

Propitiation means to appease. Death of Christ propitiated God and averted His wrath; All of God’s wrath that was originally directed at us was diverted to Jesus

2 Corin 5:21 He made Him who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf, so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.

1 John2:2 and He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world.

4.Reconciliation with God

The barrier between God and man was torn down.

2 Corinthians 5:19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation.

Romans 5:10 For if, when we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!


5. Justification in Faith

God is just and He demonstrated His justice.

We are declared righteous before God. God passes the “Not Guilty” verdict.

God pronounces us just, not because of what we had done, but what He has done.

Gal 2:16 know that a man is not justified by observing the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by observing the law, because by observing the law no one will be justified.

Titus 3:4-7 "4 But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, 6 whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, 7 so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life

Romans 3:25-26 "25 God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished— 26 he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus."


6. Broken the power of Sin in our lives

By Christ’s death at the Cross, power of sin is broken.

Romans 6:1-10 "1 What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? 3 Or don't you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? 4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. 5 If we have been united with him like this in his death, we will certainly also be united with him in his resurrection. 6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin— 7 because anyone who has died has been freed from sin. 8 Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. 9 For we know that since Christ was raised from the dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over him. 10 The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God.


7. Cleanse (Purified) us from Sin

1 John 1:7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.


8. Basis of judgement of satan and his demons

Colossians 2:13-15 “13 When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your sinful nature, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, 14 having canceled the written code, with its regulations, that was against us and that stood opposed to us; he took it away, nailing it to the cross. 15 And having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross."

John 12:31 Now is the time for judgment on this world; now the prince of this world will be driven out.

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Physical life reflects spiritual life

A question from a brother hit me hard in one of the sharing sessions. I pondered about it through the whole session that night.

I always had this problem of waking up on time for school. The condition got from bad to worse because I didnt like school. The impact was seen from my last semester's grades.

The question was, " You don't do your QT daily right? " At first, I couldn't gasp what he meant. Then, the explaination came. Cannot wake up was an excuse to don't want to wake up. I agree. That shows the lack of discipline. The person lacks discipline and so the actions will show the lack of discipline.

From this, I see the integration of my spiritual life and physical life. What I do in my physical life will have its share in my spiritual life. Thanks brother for the enlightenment.

To train discipline, action must be taken. He suggested putting 3 alarm clocks instead of one. He did that and he could wake up even before the first alarm clock ring after some time. Proven effective if one have the heart to do so. It is all in the mind.

Well,I will try hard to discipline myself. Try the 3 alarm clock idea for those who have problems waking up in the morning! =)

Love,
Jovii =pP

13 "If you keep your feet from breaking the Sabbath and from doing as you please on my holy day, if you call the Sabbath a delight and the LORD's holy day honorable, and if you honor it by not going your own way and not doing as you please or speaking idle words,

14 then you will find your joy in the LORD, and I will cause you to ride on the heights of the land and to feast on the inheritance of your father Jacob." The mouth of the LORD has spoken.

Isaiah 58: 13- 14

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Bringing boldness into the marketplace
Last Friday, Daven and I met up in our school planning to set up a prayer point like what Pastor Khong has called us to do so. We actually wanted to prayer-walk the school and ask for God’s presence to come into the school. And the Lord showed us that we need to claim the land for God.

So, we decided to use the most ‘traditional’ way to claim the land. By planting ice-cream sticks along the circumference of the whole school. With every ice-cream we plant, we pray that God will reign over this campus. Just as what it is written on the ice-cream stick itself, “Jesus Christ is lord, Reign over this campus”


With every ice-cream stick we plant, we could see small little ripples coming out from that stick. And with the theory of an engineer (Daven), we believe that with many small ripple effects; will then create a massive huge ripple effect that will sweep across the whole of the campus.

Lets all start to do something that you’ve never done before in your marketplace, and believe that God for a miracle. Just like what we’ve done in our school.

Ps: It’s bold because we almost got caught by the security guard by anyhow planting
things into the soil of Temasek Poly. But thank god, we didn’t get caught! (:

Be Blessed,
Chuanlian

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Whatever You're Doing!



Lord, whatever you're doing inside of me.
I'm giving in to this peace that is heavenly in You.

PsD

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Dear DE family,

In the lead up to the sexuality talk, we would like to hear you! You are invited to send ANY question on sexuality/BGR to the tribe blog email address at detribe@yahoo.com.sg. We will use the questions to tailor the session. So go on.......ask anything you like on the topic!

The DE Tribe Blog Team

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FIREPROOF!!!



From the producers of Facing the Giants!

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LOVE IS HERE!

LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO!



PsD

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Cardboard Testimony

Hey family,

Check this video out. It speaks million! (:



Nigel

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temptation



a video thats really cute.. but i believe in it lies a deeper meaning.. be blessed as you watch and may the Lord speak to you!

love,
ming

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Harvest Skit

Guys this is the skit of the year!
Watching this brings back memories!

DEtribe Blog Team

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A New Beginning – The Search for Significance

As Pastor Danny shares his new beginning, I began to remember my new beginning too ... His was one that has a very powerful encounter with the Holy Spirit and God ... Mine was just a deep need in my life that cries out to someone bigger than I am to meet that need in my life!


I remember the day when I raise my hand to give my life to God, there was no revelation or words released, there was neither any booming voice nor any tinkling sensation in my heart. It was just a normal Good Friday cell event but I just raised my hands because I wanted to feel important and belonged to a person or a place. To me, I’m looking for recognition, appreciation and love. That year, I was 16!

In my life before knowing God, I deeply yearned to be significant. I tried my best to please everyone around me. I never dared say “NO” to my friends. I never dare to be who I really am in front of them. I was never a leader. I don’t even dare to share with my friends about my family for fear that they would look down on me.

My dad was an alcoholic and never brought in the bacon. He got into trouble with the illegal moneylenders and then left the family to handle the harassment. There were days when he would get home really drunk and things got all smashed up in the house and I’ll be crying in my room and pretending that I didn’t hear anything.



I was very ashamed of my background and it very much affected my self-esteem. My journey in searching for my significance – my self-worth – began after knowing God. I tried to be smart, so that I can prove to the world that I am capable. I tried to give in to the demands of all around me so that I can feel the approval of men. I always feel great shame within me and refuse to talk about my family and I blame my parents many times for not giving me a complete family. Oh, and not forgetting that I always felt that I was not attractive at all compared to all my classmates. The day when I really began to understand more about the struggles internally was half a year after I accepted Christ. I went to work in church for 2 months after O levels. The pastors then brought us through the search for significance. From then, I began to experience what it really means to say:

“The truth shall set you free”.
“I am deeply loved, completely forgiven, fully pleasing and totally accepted by God, complete in Christ.”
These words still ring in my mind every other day ... I’ve memorised them and recite them as often as I need to remember that my esteem, my self-worth, my significance is based on how God views me and not how the world views me. I encouraged you to do the same.
In the weeks ahead, I’ll share with all of you my journey as a youth in my search for significance. Who I am is really because of who God is. Remember this journey will not be possible unless you have that personal encounter with God and His Holy Spirit!!!
Would you take a minute to watch this video? May it speak to you as it has always spoken to me.

“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of our mind.” (Rom 12:2a)




Love,
Ps Evelyn.

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SEX



This is a teaser to all the guys in DEtribe, Pastor Danny will be teaching about "how do boys become a real man in this sexual world". So do watch out for it in the very near future!

The DEtribe Blog Team

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99 Balloons

One balloon to represent one day of Elliot's life.
99 balloons to sum up his entire life.
But in just 99 days, his life has touched many and brought life, hope and love to others!
What about yours?
Are you willing to let God use every single day of your life?
The DE tribe blog team

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Celebrate what is right with the world

We watched this video several months back , and I believed we were all changed!
Basically it speaks about how we can change our view of the world, our mindset to one thats always am able to see the beautiful things in life!
More importantly do we believe that in things that are mundane or just plain or boring, that there can be beauty in them.

In recent weeks, many things have been happening to the people around me, and these are things that hurt me. Seeing people feeling down and out and basically feeling life is not worth much, I began to worry, because life is fun. It is meant to be fun with full of hope and optimism basically LIFE is meant to be in fullness, ZOE(fullness of life). Go read john 10:10

Things happen for a reason, and there is no such things as coincidence whether it is something good or bad so we should not just brush it one side, but we then need to ask ourselves this question, how then should I view this situation in my life.
What good can come out of it? What is God saying in the midst of confusion?
I believe this video will help to answer that, which is to CELEBRATE WHAT IS RIGHT WITH THE WORLD!

This is a long video about 22mins in total, I encourage you to watch it again!
Especially from 7:30min onwards.
Kenny Foo

Celebrate What's Right With The World

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